Lately, I’ve been thinking a lot about how we care for one another. To me, often times, the way in which we show our love and devotion to those closest to us is misinterpreted. We are so close to the situation and so embroiled in it emotionally, that we can’t actually see how we are affecting the one or ones we are concerned about.
“Don’t assume I can’t do it”, comes from the mouths of the ones we are trying to protect. “Let me try and I will tell you if I need help.” Pause – breathe – listen.
Even when we are grown, we need family, friends, loved ones to keep us on track. It’s not just for the little ones that we need to parent or keep in check. As we age, we need help to stay the course; to be held accountable.
But when a loved one goes off track, does something that may be hurtful or selfish or scary, sometimes finding peace is better than being right. We need to pick and chose our battles. And know, in the end, our intentions are pure and the best thing to do is just love; share your love; tell your loved ones how much they mean to you every day as if it’s your last; and find peace in that.